Pillow Talk Weekly

Maybe the Midlife Crisis Was Actually the Midlife Awakening
Adventure After 50
Fina De' Lorenzo

Maybe the Midlife Crisis Was Actually the Midlife Awakening

What if the midlife crisis was never a crisis at all? Maybe it’s the moment the haze finally lifts and you realize you’re allowed to choose yourself. I’m shedding old names, old expectations, fear and the need for approval—and stepping into a life filled with tattoos, travel, laughter, adventure and unapologetic joy. I’m not losing myself. I’m finally becoming her.

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Well… Apparently She Wasn’t Dead After All
body confidence
Fina De' Lorenzo

Well… Apparently She Wasn’t Dead After All

Menopause, stress and life had pretty much buried my libido—and honestly, I thought she might be gone for good. Then I decided to try something new. Let’s just say… apparently she wasn’t dead after all. This week’s Pillow Talk is about PT-141, intimacy, finding what works for you, and remembering that feeling like yourself again matters too.

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Menopause: Why Does Everyone Suddenly Annoy Me?
ADHD Women
Fina De' Lorenzo

Menopause: Why Does Everyone Suddenly Annoy Me?

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Does Anyone Have the Magic Key?
ADHD
Fina De' Lorenzo

Does Anyone Have the Magic Key?

Why do some people hear concern while others hear criticism? This week, I'm exploring why every difficult conversation can feel like a declaration of war, what emotional intelligence really looks like, and why silence—not conflict—is often the greatest danger to any relationshi

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The Survivalist and the Princess
Boundaries
Fina De' Lorenzo

The Survivalist and the Princess

Apparently I’m a Princess. Now What? One of the highlights of my week was discovering that my partner thinks we need another therapy session because apparently our disagreement isn’t fully...
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Learning How to Stop Abandoning Myself
Boundaries
Fina De' Lorenzo

Learning How to Stop Abandoning Myself

Sometimes I wonder how much our health is connected to the lives we’ve lived. Like… if stress can physically live inside the body, mine has probably signed a long-term lease...
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