Pillow Talk Weekly

What happens when the woman who always handles everything finally stops? Apparently, everyone gets confused. After years of fixing, rescuing and carrying what never belonged to me, I’m learning that setting boundaries isn’t abandonment—it’s finally coming home to myself.

Menopause, stress and life had pretty much buried my libido—and honestly, I thought she might be gone for good. Then I decided to try something new. Let’s just say… apparently she wasn’t dead after all. This week’s Pillow Talk is about PT-141, intimacy, finding what works for you, and remembering that feeling like yourself again matters too.

Fear has a way of convincing us that it's too late. Too late to change careers. Too late to chase a dream. Too late to become who we always wanted to be. This week, I'm choosing to challenge that lie. At 59, I'm finally going after the education life never gave me the chance to have—and I'm doing it scared.